Your Type Might Be the Reason Why You Are Still Single
Tuesday, December 20, 2016
The
real reason men and women keep getting disappointed by their "type” is
because of their expectations.
Example:
She wants a humble guy with swag. If he's humble he probably saves instead of spending.
She wants a Godly man but wishes he was cooler. If he's Godly he'll be set
apart. She likes a ripped model guy with a 6 pack and expects him to faithful;
if he's good looking and cares that much about his body he probably enjoys
attention from women. In each case to truly represent being Humble, Godly or
Ripped he has to invest his time to become that quality which means he won't
value the other quality.
Example:
He wants a sexy girl who is classy for him. If she's sexy to the world, she
isn't gonna be just his. A bad girl who has a mind, it's not that she doesn't
have a mind, it's her mind-set and how she does life that is contradictory to
settling down. Or a Godly woman who is naughty. Well Godly women are usually
modest. In each case, to truly represent being Sexy, a Baddie, or Godly she has
to invest her time to become that quality which means she won't value the other
quality.
You
might have a weakness for a "type" like sex appeal, hood, flawless
beauty but don't be surprised when that quality follows through in every aspect
of a person's life. See that's where you're getting frustrated meeting the same
type but they can't live up to your expectations.
Moral of story: If you
want someone reliable find someone reliable from the jump and accept that
quality will follow through in other areas of their life and they may not be as
exciting as the thug.
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