Fashion Blogger Ella Mo’ Adenuga Shares Emotional Story to Mark Second Wedding Anniversary
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
She wrote via Instagram:
Happy Wedding
Anniversary to my beloved husband and I... It definitely not has been an easy
journey... But my old man always tells me... If you can endure the first 2
years of your marriage, then you have passed!
I remember how we
thought we had known each other... Little did we know we were strangers! Is it
how we fought over every little thing at a particular time? How we kept calling
our parents saying we wanted to break up! How we slept in same bed despising
each other? How we lived in same roof and stoped taking to each other! How we
never agreed at some point? How we thought we made mistakes marrying each
other? I could go on and on.... One day I took it to God in prayers!
I asked Him what was
happening to Us? God told me to ask my husband and not ask Him! One day, I woke
my husband at the middle of the night, I cried profusely asking him why? What?
When? And Where? And I realized he had bottled up a lot! He had stopped
complaining coz I will always nag when he does! He was tired and at every
little opposition he would snap back! Same here too! I had thought he didn't
love me again! I had thought he was pretending to love me!
We realized we were
raised by different parents, hence our different attitude towards our ways of
life! Then we began to sit every weekend to discuss what happened over the week
that we didn't like.. We began to Communicate... We began to accept each
other's flaws and differences, we began to pray more and complain less.. Are
you reading this and your marriage is facing some challenges?
I urge you to first take it to God in prayers! I
urge you to have a communication with your husband every time, access yourself
weekly and ensure you do not keep records of each other's wrongs!
I am not going to
come here and pretend like it's been rosy! But through it all... I've learned,
I've changed and we are better each day that pass!
HAPPY WEDDING
ANNIVERSARY to US! 💛
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