The partner you are with now is a mirror of you, the one you will be with will also be a mirror of you at that time. If you are tired of your relationship, improve on yourself. No woman will ever get involved with some one not in her class. No Man will date a lady whose reasoning faculty antagonises his.
You have attracted your kind and you will keep attracting your kind except you adjust. Prayers and fasting won't change it. If a guy that is controlled by His erection wants a relationship, he will end up with a lady that is sleeping around as long as he can path with some naira notes. If your desire is to quickly get married as soon as possible, you will meet a man who is quick to do introduction and
engagement though he does not mean it. As long as it will make you will make you comfortable and keep opening your legs for him.
The only remedy to connecting with a good partner is that you develop yourself into the kind of person that can attract the partner. Change your mindset; Deepen your know - how; Develop your skills and increase your worth.
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You have attracted your kind and you will keep attracting your kind except you adjust. Prayers and fasting won't change it. If a guy that is controlled by His erection wants a relationship, he will end up with a lady that is sleeping around as long as he can path with some naira notes. If your desire is to quickly get married as soon as possible, you will meet a man who is quick to do introduction and
engagement though he does not mean it. As long as it will make you will make you comfortable and keep opening your legs for him.
The only remedy to connecting with a good partner is that you develop yourself into the kind of person that can attract the partner. Change your mindset; Deepen your know - how; Develop your skills and increase your worth.
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1. Don't expect anything from anyone- That way you’re not disappointed. If you make plans based on money you’re expecting from family and friends, you may sadly find that some are unable to give you as much as you expected, and others unable to give you anything at all. Cut your coat according to your fabric; anything else that comes in is a nice bonus
2. Don’t start planning your wedding until you both have agreed on a budget based on thorough research.
3. Do paint a clear picture of your wedding before you start planning. Will it be a big affair with lots of pomp or a simple blessing ceremony in the pastor’s office? Will you have a reception or give out take-away packs of food and drinks instead? Will you have a big wedding? Will it be a one-day, two-day or three-day affair? Will you have a bridal train or just your maid of honor and best man? Will you include children in your bridal train? If you will, who should be in charge of coordinating them? And so on...
Before you fall in love with someone and begin to develop your relationship into marriage, do not allow the excitement of being in a relationship or the physical attributes of your supposed partner deceive you, all you should first consider is the character. The character of a person is the true nature he/she possesses. The character of a person is the definition of his capacity and prophecy of his future. No man will do more than his character. No matter how educated and civilized a person may be, his character will best reveal the content of his heart and the intentions of his mind.
How does he treat people? How does he relates with people? What are the things he holds as Core Values and Principles. The way he treats others is a pointer to how he will treat you and anybody around you. Character is the most important part of a person that cannot be extricated from him. He is as his character is. He will be as his character reveals. I make bold to state everywhere that; Before someone breaks your heart and tear your love apart, he once showed the sign but you ignored it, because you thought you were in love.
Budget
Plan with what you have, not with money expected from friends, but with what you and your partner have saved, earnings, cooperative contributions. A classy wedding is not determined by the size of guests, money spent or wasted, it is by quality and taste. A wedding held under a tree, canopy, beach, or in your family’s garden can be classier than that held in a 2000 hall filled to overflowing capacity with rowdy guests, inadequately planned and causing you to be strongly indebted at the end of the event.
Brides maid/ Groomsmen
Choose your brides maids and groomsmen carefully, are they employed? Are you of the same financial class? Don’t make them pay through their nose so as to wear matching outfits, shoes and accessories. They may resent you for it later. Select just few, instead of the 50-man bridal train you always dream of, you can trim them down to 10 man train who are capable of meeting the expenses.
Wedding Items
Source your wedding items locally, flowers, refreshments, vendors, what’s the point of traveling to Dubai if you will still get the same experience in Obudu ranch and at a cheaper price.
Your pocket size should dictate the economic plan of your wedding. Miracles do happen, and help can come from different sources but those are on a standby mode, after all there is life after the wedding event, when the real marriage starts and you need funds to fall back on.
Plan with what you have, not with money expected from friends, but with what you and your partner have saved, earnings, cooperative contributions. A classy wedding is not determined by the size of guests, money spent or wasted, it is by quality and taste. A wedding held under a tree, canopy, beach, or in your family’s garden can be classier than that held in a 2000 hall filled to overflowing capacity with rowdy guests, inadequately planned and causing you to be strongly indebted at the end of the event.
Brides maid/ Groomsmen
Choose your brides maids and groomsmen carefully, are they employed? Are you of the same financial class? Don’t make them pay through their nose so as to wear matching outfits, shoes and accessories. They may resent you for it later. Select just few, instead of the 50-man bridal train you always dream of, you can trim them down to 10 man train who are capable of meeting the expenses.
Wedding Items
Source your wedding items locally, flowers, refreshments, vendors, what’s the point of traveling to Dubai if you will still get the same experience in Obudu ranch and at a cheaper price.
Your pocket size should dictate the economic plan of your wedding. Miracles do happen, and help can come from different sources but those are on a standby mode, after all there is life after the wedding event, when the real marriage starts and you need funds to fall back on.
You pass by a store window and do a
double-take…”ooh, those shoes are too cute!”Determined to make them yours, you
go inside to try them on. You anxiously await the salesperson’s return only
hear those dreaded words, “I’m sorry, but we don’t have those in your size.”
You’re at a crossroads: cute shoe, but the wrong size!… what’s a girl to do? At
this point you have two basic options:
1. Leave the store a wee bit disappointed (nothing
else is comparable) or
2. Request the shoe in a different size
Common
sense would tell us to leave the store, realizing it’s not the end of the
world. However all too often we try to squeeze into a different size. First you
try a half-size too small causing your feet to hurt with each step, developing
bunions and all around pain. Then you try a size too big so they’re flapping
off your feet and gaping when you walk. The shape of the shoe doesn’t even
conform to your foot and at this point it does nothing to complement your foot,
your outfit or you. You see neither of these alternate size options works well
and we soon come to realize that as cute as the shoe is, it is just not a good
fit and would be better served on someone else. Let it go and walk away
recognizing that the perfect shoe for you is in your future.
Well as it goes with shoes, the same goes for our
relationships. Yes, it’s a well-known fact that women love shoes just like me,
so I’m confident you can relate to this analogy. Recognize when you’re in an
unhealthy relationship and walk away. So often we stay in bad relationships
because we’d rather be in an unhealthy relationship than be alone. In fact many
of us have been in bad relationships so long that our dysfunction begins to
seem normal so we keep getting into the same types of relationships.
No one should talk with your mate more than you. If
they can get in your mate’s head, chances are they will climb in their bed too.
Take care of home.
