Out of Sight, Out Of His Mind!
Thursday, April 21, 2016
Are you dating someone who you have to initiate
contact with all the time? To a man this would be an obvious sign of
disinterest. Yet we women like to make excuses maybe he is busy, he has a lot
on his plate, or anything.
We refuse to accept the obvious, why? I am saying this
for me as much as for you. Ladies stop being in denial he just doesn’t want
you. I know it sounds harsh but reality is often harsh and not sweet at all.
A lot of times we simply just do not want to be left
feeling unwanted. If all he offers is sex move on, no sense in adding another
unnecessary notch on your belt. In most cases, he is getting more than he is
giving. Quit holding onto someone who was never joined to you.
He told you in so many words he would never be yours.
All he can offer is this and that. You deserve better than this and that you
have to know that. Walk away with your dignity intact. It hurts like hell when
you desire more than he does. Especially, when you all have known each other for
quite some time and he only pursues you to do you. All that energy on a
momentary fix. It is so belittling like that’s all you see in me. Yet he says
there is more yet his actions prove it is just the physical. Keep your cookie
to your damn self. He is so not worth it. Once you deem him unworthy move on
without any qualms. He will just keep on till he can poke somebody else.
No love lost and no more notches added to your belt.
Stop settling for less than the best. Always remember this too shall pass and the
best is yet to come. Yes ladies this message is for us. Let him go!
I am going to take my own advice. I am going to let
this thing go no matter how much it hurts. I know this means going back to the
drawing board but it is time to put my pen down for a while. Obviously, this
thing is not working for me. I need time off. It gets lonely but we cannot fear
being alone more than being with someone who is unworthy of our time and
attention.
Are you interested in someone who only offers you
little to nothing? Do you want more? What are you willing to do to change the
situation? Share your thoughts below.
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