African Wedding Bliss

1) Marry someone who loves you AND respects you.

2) Marry someone who is of comparable intelligence.

3) A big church wedding doesn’t guarantee a lasting marriage.

Most vendors have done tons of weddings, and likely have tons of photos & examples to show you. So, always ask your vendors to show you samples of their work so you can get a better understanding of their style.

No woman wants to date or marry a broke guy. It is a simple truth. No matter her age, position or level of desperation, she still wants a man who can provide for her, take care of her and give her a measure of security and stability. It is not a matter of gold digging or anything of that sort, women are just wired that way.

It is why the idea of the knight-in-shining-arbor appeals to them so much. Consider the traditional format: The man, being a Knight, has an appealing status, a horse (mobility a.k.a “motor car”) and various skills as well as the strength to protect her. She, on the other hand, does not have a horse and is usually trapped, in lack or just in need of saving.